In love with a Strippa ~ Day of Days 21

#21- the day you met your most recent/or last love

The man above is my ex-fiance Bashaun. I called him Bae cause that's his name. His alter ego Mr. Deep is below. We actually met around 2002 at a male revue he was preforming at. I was only there cause my bestie at the time was the barmaid and i get lit for free. ( Thanks Carla and Christine's bar)  At the time i wasn't looking for nothing. It took him a while to even get my number. We just messed around off and off with lots of time in between til we got bored with each other. Yeah he was just my bed buddy. 

Fast forward 9 years November 11,2011(THE DAY)  he finds me on what Facebook and we start back chatting and after a few weeks he decided that he was tired of being out here and wanted to settle down. The first day we had a date I made dinner cause i wasnt in the mood to go out. We had dinner, laughed talked about the old days, and of course memories came flashing back and next thing you know... we making passionate mind blowing love. Funny thing we both are so quiet afterwards it was eerie. (cant listen to Trey Songz  ever over dinner). We just had the best chemistry ever and it never died down. I'm going on and on but that was the first day of our new found relationship. 

A few weeks later later he asked me to marry him and i feel in love all over again. 

Enough of that... he will always have a part of my heart and i wish him luck doing whatever makes him happy. Reason, season, lesson or lifetime. Unfortunately he FUMBLED.

Day 21 - Say Goodbye

Day 21.  Your worst breakup ever~what wound be the main song on the soundtrack?

Never a right time to say goodbye but know we gotta go our separate ways...Chris Brown

Day 21 - "Bermuda Bahama come on pretty mama"

21~ What is the most romantic location you would want to visit?

"Bermuda Bahamas come on pretty mama to Key Largo Montego baby we can go down to Kokomo we'll get their fast and then we'll take it slow"


My choice would be the Hawaii/Bahamas, i was all set to go this upcoming September with my boo but some things didn't work out so i'm not. I had plans of making this the most enjoyable time of my life with the man i love. We will get there soon i guess this was not the right time for us to go. 


I hear the water and the land is beautiful and clean. Making love under the stars and waking up to beautiful sunrises and sunsets. I haven't been out the country in a long time but i plan on doing it soon. Okay i'm disappointed again. Blog over.

Day 21 Erotic Truth Challenge - My Panty Dropper List

21. Make a music playlist you would like to get busy to …(name of artist, title of song, why you choose it)

1. Sex Therapy - Robin Thicke i would use this song to give my boo a lil dance before i put it on him...

2. Plies & Jamie Foxx - Please excuse my hands -that's one of those joints you just cant deny makes you wanna touch some things

3. Grove on - Gerald Levert i think i got pregnant off this song...I'm a big Gerald Levert fan

4.Neighbors know my name -Trey Songz - He better be making me scream moan and grab for some sheet. Damn the neighbors!

5. Jupiter Love - Trey Songz - nothing like a man examining his sexual prey and taking you to the highest level of intimacy

6. Jagged Edge - Tip of my tongue self explanatory (dialing phone)

7. Prince - Adore - this song is a classic pantie dropper nuff said

8. Beauty - Dru Hill - brings back a memory...it was on repeat 

9.Make me say it again - Isley Brothers - 7:30 of pure passion classic love song

10. Spend the night - Isley Brothers - one thing about ol skool they went a good 7- 10 minutes so u didn't have to change the record...no interruptions.

*that's my list i hope you enjoyed*