Drawing a blank Day of Day 20

#20- the most memorable day of your childhood

 Growing up i was always around my brother Deon and my sister Theresa. We used to make up games and keep each other occupied. I cannot remember anything specific I just know it was with them. Playing any bounce in the street and flag football in the snow was awesome to me. My mom really wasn't focused on us when she got divorced from my dad and moved back to Cleveland. We always were in school, had a roof over our head, and she was there when we left for school. Guess this is why i hesitated to post. Glad I had my siblings and still have them now.

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Day 24 - So Beautiful MJB

Day 24.  You are on a dream vacation.

So Beauitful...by MJB

(From How Stella Got Her Groove Back)

Jamaica or Caribbean meet a beautiful chocolate man of my dreams and let it flow..

Day 20 - Get on My Level

Day 20.  Someone is talking shit about you on the Internet (face book, my space, twitter, etc.)

"you can never eva eva eva eva eva eva get on my level" That kinda all the energy i put up for internet gangstas. I'm so much more polished and don't even entertain little shit like that. It tends to escalate i bum ass bish cause....i dont support bullshit.

Day 20 - Distant Lover.....computer love

20~ Do you believe in Long Distance/Internet Love? Why or Why not?  Yes i believe in both/experienced both.

Pictured above is my ex boyfriend Darryl we had a 2 1/2 year relationship even tho I live in Cleveland and he lived in Mobile, Alabama. I was on vacation August 24,2005 when i met him. swept me off my feet with all that southern hospitality and charm. We moved fast, too fast. We made love the night Hurricane Katrina touched down. Wind blowing alarms going off and windows boarded up...we forgot we were in danger. For 2 years i flew back in forth visiting at least twice a month and it worked until he allowed someone to obtain my number and call me. I wasn't dumb i knew the distance was hard for him but i never thought it would get back to me. I spent Mardi Gras of 2007 with him and his family and cried like a baby when i got to the airport (i told him bout  the phone call) cause i knew i wasn't coming back....and he knew it too. We still check on each other from time to time. Long distance is hard but works for people who are honest patient and are truly in love.

 I believe internet love is cool. Picture above is Billy aka Billy Best Dressed (Y360)
We had a thing going on for a long time. I was his internet boo...so to say. We talked all day every day. We Skype'd Messenger, phone sex you name it. We never connected in person tho. He lived in California and was a bit of a ladies man as i soon found out from the backdoor messages i got from many people. He made me happy and i think that was more than enough. I had been celibate for 7+months when we met and made it an official year thanks to the distance. I wouldn't do it now cause i desire a more hands on relationship. Trust is important with both of these relationships.

Day 20 - Erotic Truth Challenge - Oppps...i tinkled a bit

20. Tell a story of your most embarrassing sexual experience..

OK i said i would tell the truth so here goes.....

i was dating this guy a few years back for bout a year. We had such a good time, passionate sex, and we smoked sooo much weed it was a damn shame. (don't judge) One night we went to the bar and got wasted i mean if he didn't live five minutes down the street from the reggae bar we would be in trouble. We could have paid Don Julio's' mortgage that night. We had smoked before we went out and planned on having a night cap and going to bed. We get home and he wasted no time lifting my dress and pushing me on the sofa. (i like that spontaneous sex) His legs begin to buckle of course cause we fucked up. We fall on the floor and keep at it...I'm on top getting rug burn then he eating me out and getting elbow burn lol. We are going at it y'all balcony door open breeze from the lake cooling our hot passion sweaty action it was all good. I think i passed out, he must have carried me into the bedroom cause that's where i woke up. He wasn't next to me and i heard voices in the living room..but my dress wasn't there it was prolly behind the couch. I knew it was his normal crew coming over to smoke and play the damn football game. 

I had to pee so i grab his T-shirt and tipped out the room. I made it in the bathroom and took care of my business but as i came out my boo came in closed the door and gave it to me on the counter. This dumb dumb cant hear me saying stop i gotta pee (i had alot of liquor and a weak ass bladder) and is giving it to me. To make my long story short I couldn't hold it anymore and i released a little... his ass stopped then and apologized for getting lost in the Budda...lol He left me get myself together and tucked me in the bed. the next morning we had a great big laugh out of it...and it was the running joke til the moment we parted. Every time i think of him that incident pops up in my head...i hope he didn't tell nobody but God. *Shrugs*